In this talk, clinical psychologist Becky Kennedy explains that the most important parenting strategy is the act of repairing after moments of disconnection. Rather than striving for perfection, parents should focus on taking responsibility for their behavior when they lose their temper, which helps prevent children from developing harmful patterns of self-blame. By separating their identity from their behavior, parents can reconnect with their children, foster a sense of safety and trust, and teach effective communication. Ultimately, Kennedy emphasizes that it is never too late to repair these relationships and positively influence a child’s development.
